Tuesday, October 25, 2016

No longer does he have his eyes wide shut


The retirement party on Saturday was superb. All the featured speakers were spot on in praising our friend, George. He was getting out of the airline business after 36 years. There was a break in the action following the speeches and the place emptied out. It is hard to believe so many were headed outside to smoke cigarettes. I went out to listen to the stories.

One of the great storytellers was just a few feet from the door. John had been a heavy drinker for over 40 years. He knew the day would come sometime so he decided to quit when he was wife got sick. This seemed like the honorable thing to do. It was much easier than he anticipated.

With extra time on his hands, John mapped out his next mission. He sat down and wrote a letter for the first time since he was a teenager in the United States Marine Corps. Dear John.

The goal was to perform one act of kindness every day. That will be 7300 nice gestures over the next twenty years if they let me stick around that long.


There have been easy ones like paying for a stranger's coffee or letting somebody go ahead in line. A favorite was giving directions to an elderly Irish woman. "She didn't understand me and I didn't understand her. So I lifted her into my truck and put her in the passenger's seat while I put her pocketbook on the console. In five minutes, she was at her destination."

I used to speed up when I went by the church or blow through red lights when I was running late. I had no patience for anybody when I waited in line at the store. I couldn't wait to get out of work and always had excuses to cut out early. I used to think that the library was just a big building with a bunch of bricks.

And now, I can't believe I just got my first library card. It looked as though I were headed to AA. And now I'm a member of AAA.

Hey buddy, need a lift. I'm headed that way.



Paul Murphy

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Friday, October 21, 2016

It appears civility in today's society may be dead

14 years is not nearly enough time for Genesis drummer and solo artist, Phil Collins to forget the treatment he received from Paul McCartney. The Beatles had been a major early influence on Collins, including their drummer Ringo Starr. The party at Buckingham Palace in 2002 where Collins approached Paul McCartney ended whatever hero-worshipping that may have existed.

"McCartney came up to me with Heather Mills and I had a first edition of 'The Beatles' by Hunter Davies. ‘Hey Paul, do you mind signing this for me?’ And he said, ‘Oh Heather, our little Phil’s a bit of a Beatles fan.’


Phil Collins' credits include eight studio albums that have sold 33.5 million certified units in the US and an estimated 150 million worldwide, making him one of the world's best-selling artists. He is one of three recording artists, along with Paul McCartney and Michael Jackson, who have sold over 100 million albums worldwide both as solo artists and separately as principal members of a band. He has won seven Grammy Awards, six Brit Awards, two Golden Globe Awards, an Academy Award, and a Disney Legend Award.

In 1999, he received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame and was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame in 2003, the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame as a member of Genesis in 2010, and the Modern Drummer Hall of Fame in 2012.

I just finished listening to all six minutes 36 seconds of Sussudio. The title of the song by Phil Collins was named for a stutterer who could not pronounce studio. Sussudio is an imaginary girl's name. The song is about having a crush on someone when you are young. He used Sussudio as a name to encompass any girl.

Phil Collins found it important enough to acknowledge those who are not perfect. Collins has battled numerous physical ailments over the past decade. He lost the ability to play drums due to the considerable pain this caused. He lost the feeling in his left leg following surgery and walks with a cane.

I am swearing off listening to any Paul McCartney songs. Let the moratorium begin. It was pretty easy in changing the dial for Hey Jude.

It has been 43 years since I have knowingly purchased any Pepsi products due to their misguided customer treatment. With 310 channels on Sirius Radio, I am well equipped to give Paul McCartney the same treatment.


Paul Murphy

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Sunday, October 16, 2016

Nobody has been able to lay off one, yet


Peter Pan was the top movie in theaters in 1953, with a lifetime gross of over $87,400,000. It was 60 cents to go to the movies. The Massachusetts schoolboy baseball tournament was held at Fenway Park, and there was no admission required.

The tournament featured powerhouse Bay State schools from: Somerville, Newton and Milford. The fourth school represented were the diminutive Patriots from Concord. Enrollment was barely 100 students, and that encompassed three other towns(Bedford, Carlisle and Lincoln). Concord was in the midst of a 59 game winning streak on the gridiron, but baseball had never been its strong suit.

Future Cleveland Indians' draftee, lefthander Dave Bouchard got Concord off on the right foot with a complete game victory over previous State Champion Somerville, 3-2. The game featured a two run homer into the left field screen by stocky catcher, Dave DiRuzzo. The ball was belted just to the left of the flagpole atop the center field wall and scored Ken Olsen from first base who had reached on a single.

The Lions from Newton were the semifinal opponent for Concord. The game was tied 3-3 in the eighth inning when Newton's Mike Oliver blasted a line drive over the head of Concord centerfielder, Don Cullinane. The shot one hopped the wall as Oliver raced around the bases. The speedy Cullinane retrieved the ball off the wall and threw in the air to the cutoff man. Shortstop Ken Olsen made a perfect throw to third baseman Dave Wade who applied the tag on the hustling Oliver.

A late tally by Concord in the bottom of the inning gave them the lead and they hung on for the win, 4-3. The winning pitcher was righthander, Al Stockelberg. Concord would face Milford in the finals. Righthander Ralph Lumenti would be pitching for Milford. Ralph was just three years away from professional baseball with the Washington Senators in the American League.

Milford led throughout the contest and held a 5-4 lead into the ninth inning. Concord had rallied in the eighth, cutting the deficit to a single run. Lumenti had struggled mightily with his control and walked two batters
while getting two outs. He faced Arthur Duggan with hot hitting Ken Olsen on deck. Duggan worked a 3-2 count and time was called while the Milford manager, the catcher and infielders huddled at the mound. Duggan walked over to the ondeck circle for some instructions from Olsen.

"Whatever you do, don't swing. He can't find homeplate with a compass. Take your walk and I'll either tie or win the game."

Hoosiers - In 1951, Norman Dale arrives in the rural southeast Indiana town of Hickory to become a high school teacher and head basketball coach. He was hired by Cletus Summers, the principal and a longtime friend of Dale's. Dale, just out of the Navy, had been a champion collegiate coach until he struck one of his players. The coaching position in Hickory is a last chance for him.

The school enrollment is so small that Dale has only seven players on his squad. At his first practice, Dale quickly dismisses one, Buddy Walker, for not paying attention and talking while the coach is talking. Another, Whit Butcher, walks out in support of his friend, leaving Dale with only 5 players, the minimum needed to play.

Hickory shocks the state by reaching the championship game in Indianapolis. In a large arena and before a crowd bigger than any they've seen, the Hickory players face long odds to defeat the defending state champions from South Bend, whose players are taller and more athletic. But with Jimmy Chitwood scoring at the last second, tiny Hickory takes home the 1952 Indiana state championship.


The same can not be said for Concord. Their best hitter remained in the ondeck circle. Arthur Duggan did the opposite of what he was told, chasing the 3-2 curveball in the dirt that was a foot off the plate. 63 years may have moved the cost of a movie ticket to $7.92, but it hasn't moved Ken Olsen from wondering, "what if"?



Paul Murphy

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